Cameron Diaz, who has dated both Justin Timberlake and John  Mayer, opens up to the June issue of In Style about the kind of guy she’s looking to spend quality time with, MSN Entertainment reports.

“I’m not going to bring some idiot into my world, and if I’m not sure about him, I’m cautious,” she tells the mag. “My list is all about balance. You can have smart but not funny. You can have funny but not very smart. You can have intellectual but not social. But ... I want it all! I love big brains. I love to eat. I love to be outdoors. I love to have conversations! I love to make love. I live like, ‘Aarrrgh!’”

OK, Cam, take a deep, calming breath.

“I don’t do anything half-assed,” she continues, “and I want somebody who can keep up with all that. And I want someone who can show me something, you know?”

As long as he’s not overly man-scaped. “I love chest hair,” reveals Diaz. “Mm-hmm. I’m not saying I want a huge amount, but the right amount is very sexy. I don’t like the smooth, hairless body.”